Relationship help please.. Guys and Girls does this happen to you?

im 24 he is 25) Ok so saturday me and my boyfriend started fighting, he said he was sick of me treating him like a child. He said hes a grown man and I need to treat him like one, he said I nag at him all the time and that I snap easy. I said thats not true normally you cause me to get upset and its really not all the time, but I will admit I have been frustrated with you lately.. So my problem is every time he is on his video games I come 2nd..I can have a full on conversation with him and he wont even reply... wont even look at me.. so then ill go hello.... HELLO CAN YOU HEAR ME!!!! so yeah I get annoyed it really makes me mad that he can't so much as acknowledge that im talking so he gets mad at me because I have yelled at this point but he chooses not to hear my 4 other trys. We have lived together for over a year and he cleaned the kitchen for me on friday. I said thank you and that I really loved the fact he cleaned it...then he makes the comment I believe I clean that kitchen more then you so you should be thankfull which did pissed me off and I snapped back with I think you over estimate how much you really do, do around here.. then he goes geez I was kidding but thanks for letting me know how you feel..its like why did he have to make a joke like that? It hurt me because honestly I can count how many times hes cooked how many times hes cleaned..and forgive me for not jumping out of my seat to thank him.. Im kinda at a loss right now we are a newer couple the 1st 6 months of us living together was with my mom and dad..(so my mom did a lot for us) now we have our own place. I love him so much I can't see myself with out him, but I am used to other people helping me and me not doing it all on my own.. I came from a family of 5 who loved being around each other and had family dinners and family game night.. now iv moved out and he likes to play video games and I dont know how.. hes tried to show me but ends up taking the remote and thats the end of that so I kinda feel alone. I dont want our realtionship to end I just feel this is a bump in the road but I want to fix it any advice from anyone? it would really help me out.. have you gone through this are you going through this.. no mean answers please I really am looking for advice